𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲—𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵 𝗽𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Choosing to live, succeed, and thrive is an act of defiance against the pull of inertia. It’s a deliberate decision to face resistance head-on, to expend energy when the easier path is to do nothing at all. Our natural state leans toward rest—think of how effortlessly we sink into a couch or scroll through a phone. It’s comfortable, it’s passive, and it’s where momentum goes to die. But the things we most desire—health, achievement, connection, purpose—don’t wait for us in that stillness. They live on the other side of hard work, demanding we push through the friction of effort to claim them.

Resistance isn’t just an obstacle; it’s the proving ground. In the gym, this is literal: muscles grow when you lift against gravity, not when you let the barbell sit. A squat isn’t transformative because it’s easy—it’s the strain that builds strength. Life follows the same rules. Want a thriving career? You’ll need to wrestle with late nights, tough calls, and the risk of rejection. Crave deep relationships? That takes vulnerability, time, and the courage to navigate conflict. Success and fulfillment aren’t gifts bestowed on the idle; they’re rewards for those who choose to move when staying put feels better.

This choice to expend energy is what separates existing from thriving. Nature favors equilibrium—think of a rock rolling downhill until it stops. Humans, though, can defy that. We can decide to climb instead. But it’s not free. Every step costs something: sweat, focus, discomfort. The entrepreneur grinding through a startup’s lean years isn’t resting—they’re burning energy on a vision. The parent juggling work and kids isn’t coasting—they’re investing in a bond. Even joy, the kind that lasts, often comes from effort, like training for a race or mastering a skill. Passivity might keep you alive, but it won’t make you feel alive.

The catch is, resistance never fully goes away. Thriving isn’t a destination where effort stops; it’s a state sustained by it. Studies on human motivation, like those rooted in self-determination theory, show we’re wired to seek growth—but only when we engage with challenges. The brain loves a dopamine hit from a Netflix binge, but it’s the deeper satisfaction of overcoming that sticks. Rest replenishes, sure, but too much of it dulls. What we crave—meaning, pride, progress—blooms in the tension of striving.

So, to live fully is to embrace this truth: the good stuff lies beyond the hard stuff. It’s choosing the hill over the valley, knowing the view at the top is worth the climb. The natural state tempts us to conserve, to wait, to hope success drifts our way. But it won’t. Thriving means signing up for the fight—expending energy not because it’s easy, but because what’s on the other side matters more than the rest we leave behind. That’s the deal: resist, push, work. Only then do we get to taste what we’re truly capable of.

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Fist bump,

Coach Derek